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Robin's avatar

The thing that really bothers me about this harmful, divisive and deliberately chaotic ideology is the harm it causes to everyone, but mainly to the most vulnerable members of society. The "forgotten" people in all these discussions are always the babies (who, despite the claims of adults, are totally subjected to the whims and fancies of those adults).

Whether you are a so-called "trans dad" (that is a biological woman who claims to be a man, which rather begs the question of why you are pregnant in the first place), who has flooded your body with excess testosterone and ensured that your baby can't breastfeed (because you had those amputated) or a biological man publicly enraged because no one will give you a baby to breastfeed (because either this would "confirm" your womanly perception, give you a boner or both), you are only caring about your own wants and feelings.

A baby is not a lifestyle prop, s/he is an independent human being with his or her own human rights and agency, which if born to satisfy a fleeting desire of an adult, is not being respected as such. Buying human beings (surrogacy) and medical experimentation on babies (trans "women" lactating) is the next step after erasing women from both biology and the women only spaces that were created for reasons of safely and equity.

"People" are not always interchangeable. I agree Milli, since men have every other day, they can piss off from taking this one day away from us. We'll leave them to their ED support groups and men can exit from our birth and breastfeeding organizations. https://lucyleader.substack.com/p/private-spaces

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Harriet's avatar

Thank you for this brilliant article. I am a breastfeeding counsellor working in NHS maternity services and the highjacking of women's issues is troubling. I had the same reaction as you when reading the book - Milk: An Intimate History of Breastfeeding by Joanna Wolfarth, which I found to be thoughtful and brilliant in its discussion of breastfeeding. However, in the introduction the author gives her disclaimer, 'A feeding or birthing body may not belong to a woman', 'Milk is between binaries'. What!? Surely milk is the most quintessentially female thing? Either I'm losing the plot or that doesn't make sense?

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