When should we conform, and when should we be 'difficult'?

Anna and I talk things over a lot, mostly on dog walks (my dog is her dog’s puppy!) and today we decided to do it on Substack. Inspired by her recent post which wide ranges between the policing of school girl’s skirt length and the pros and cons of raising rebellious daughters, we chat between the lines about how to know when to hold’em, and when to fol…